Monday, February 27, 2017
4 tips to make your man want to die there
4 tips to make your man want to die there
Happy Sunday readers, am sure all the girls want to read this eheh.
So, you think you found the perfect guy. Youre clicking on the emotional front, and now you want to leave a lasting impression in the bedroom too.
So whats the big secret? Its not all about knock- his-socks-off sex. When it comes to keeping a guys interest, the way you approach sex can make all
the difference. So follow these four basic rules to keep him coming back for more.
1. Dont be a tease, but dont be a sure thing either
What many women — and men, for that matter — sometimes fail to realize is that theres a very fine line between being a tease and being playful. If you deny him gratification too often or for too long, hell probably lose interest and begin to build resentment. While there should never be an expectation of sex, once that expectation has been created, its very difficult to remove it without creating serious tension.
On the flip side, while men are inherently lazy and do love a sure thing, you also dont want us to take you for granted. Plus, if youre always available to satisfy him, hell think youre no longer a challenge (and most men love a challenge). So if you can turn down a booty call every now and then, or say no to sex sometimes when youre not really up for it, hes actually going to want to see you more and make more effort.
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2. Make him a believer, but dont oversell it
Heres something that isnt exactly a secret: Men all like to think that theyre "the man." So, you need to make him feel like hes doing something right. I cant stress enough the importance of playing to the male ego and placating his inevitable insecurities about penis size, stamina and the ability to bring you to orgasm. So if youre not fully satisfied, dont simply fake it for his sake; instead, communicate to him about what is working and praise him for the things he does do well. When a man feels consistently insecure about his ability to please his partner, he may get the urge to duck and run. A sincere compliment here and there will keep him focused on doing better by you in bed, instead of finding someone whos easier to please.
3. Under-promise, over-deliver
As far as the bedroom is concerned, avoid creating false expectations at all costs. For example, no guy wants to hear about how great you are at giving fellatio if youre not going to perform it on him. And if you promise to "rock his world" and then dont? Well, youre setting him up for disappointment. Its
good to be confident, but the less you promise, the less expectation you create and the more pleasant a surprise you can be for him. And when youre a pleasant surprise, theres usually going to be an encore performance; hell want to see what else you have in your bag of tricks.
4. Desire is key
Most women think great sex is all about the performance. Now, dont get me wrong — if youre really great at something and enjoy doing it, by all means, go right ahead. But its important to remember that simply expressing a desire for your guy makes a man feel sexually powerful, and making him feel wanted will make him want you even more. So dont forget to let him know how badly you want him in as much detail as you feel comfortable with. It will be a big turn-on for him, even if you arent the most experienced or skilled at any particular act.
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